That’s why your woman does not end from cunnilingus! check yourself!.
Until recently, no one has ever talked about female sexuality. After the sexual revolution, much has changed. Now about orgasms, penis and anal games sing from each iron. However, unfortunately, often these songs are fake as a broken phone. Due to porn culture in the air, a lot of distorted ideas about female excitement are hovering. Porn instills in us the thoughts that women cry with happiness after twisting the nipples and anal sex without preparation. This disaster and cunnilingus did not go around. Porn films have encouraged men and inspired them that women are falling with delight from the tongue between their legs, regardless of what this language would do there. It was these porn standards that painted the image of a crazy lover of Cooney, who smears his vulva sour cream so that the cat licks her. Friends, you generally know what the cat tongue is in touch? He is a wool like a burning line. What a pleasure here? However, if you are not a cat, you know your language has a chance to give a woman joy. And we will analyze the main mistakes that prevent you from doing this.
1. You did not have time to excite her
. And when the most welcome partner in an intimate environment does the same, it excites. All because context is important for exciting. Only a powerful clitoral stimulant or vibrator to match the woman to orgasm without special preparation. This miracle is not subject to a living person. Therefore, before climbing a playful tongue in her underpants, make sure that you started the lady properly. If she began to breathe often, blushed, got wet and changed her reproachful look at languid, you can proceed to active actions.
2. You are randomly chatting with your tongue as a small and do not understand what you are doing
Language is not a magic wand, the touch of which is enough for the vulva to make a miracle happen. However, even wizards are taught to handle magic devices in magic schools like Hogwarts. You will have to learn too. Cunnilingus is valuable with the ability to delightly and pointwise stimulate vulva, clitoris, labia and entrance to the vagina. And for this you will have to study cunnilingus techniques. Here are some of the most popular:
Light kisses: This technique is good for preparation. Kiss the labia of the partner, the inner thighs, clitoris, vulva.
Pendulum: Imitate the movements of the language of the pendulum: to the left and right, back and forth. Gradually increase pressure and build up the pace. Try your lady is close to orgasm, do not slow down. To break a woman – crime.
Deep study: Who said that cunnilingus does not mean penetration? Penetration can become a cherry on the cake and the main decoration of any difference. Penetrate inside with your fingers when you caress your clitoris or enter your tongue. Start with light sliding movements and end with more powerful. And make sure that the lubricant does not end in your lady. Do not let her get a cut!
Butterfly wings: Behind this romantic name lies the path to a powerful orgasm. Imagine your tongue is a wings of a moth and flutter around the clitoris head. Touch should be light and intensify gradually.
Alphabet. Many men understand the name of this technique too literally and with hellish zeal begin to dance the final composition for 11th grade on the genitals of their partner. Easer, guys. You can simply gently display some letters around the clitoris of the young lady. Personally my loved ones "A", "h" And "O".
3. You think that the clitoris is some kind of non -existent animal, which is not clear where to look
Clitoris – an organ covered with a veil of secrets. Scientists began to open comprehensive information about him just twenty years ago. And if the best minds of mankind needed so much time to find out what the clitoris is, where it is and what it is eaten with, then what can we say about the average Vasya or Petya. Fortunately, neither Vasya nor Petya has no need to conduct extensive sexological research. It is enough for them to carefully see what happens to their girlfriend between their legs. Hillock that swells from excitement is the clitoris head. And it is with this hillock that you will communicate during cunnilingus. It is there that you need to direct the main mass of efforts: and not five centimeters below at all.
4. You are too…rude, gentle, hard, soft or some other. And you will never know about it, because you do not ask how better she is
There are no two similar leaves on trees, two similar colors in the garden, two similar snowflakes in the New Year. And two similar vulv also does not exist in the world. Each vulva is unique. There are differently distributed nerve endings. Therefore, you will have to not only read everything about cunnilingus techniques, but also to make the result with the emotions of your passion. Learn sexual communication. Openly ask about desires and preferences. After all, the easier the couple discusses sex, the more this pair of prospects.
5. She lacks penetration
Most often, women complain that they lack external stimulation. But it happens and vice versa. Sometimes during cunnilingus the ladies lack something inside. This can be arranged. Enter your fingers, tongue or sex toy in it. Together with the oral caresses of the clitoris, the result will not be long in coming.
6. She needs more severe clitoral stimulation
Language – extremely delicate and delicate tools. Sometimes you need something worse for dizzying orgasms. Combine the stimulation of the clitoris head with a tongue with external stimulation by a vibrator or hands.
7. You bite
As the modern classic rapper Slava CPSU said, "Lizya, not bite! Clitoris – delicate little thing!". Glory of the CPSU suffered for the truth. For this slogan it was closed in a monkey for several days. Apparently, the police did not want the dear Russians to finally have sexy life.
8. She is used to ending from other sexual practices. Leave her alone!
Yes, not all end from cunnilingus. This is fine. Modern sexologists say any orgasm is good. You are not obliged to end total from everything that happens in your bed. And your partner too. Relax.
If you were desperate to make your girlfriend Cunnilingus, your tongue is hellishly tired and you intend to give her pleasure differently, here is a selection of toys that can be used during sex: