How to make lingam massage.
In tantric sexual practices, emphasis is on slow, conscious sex, the ultimate goal of which is not an orgasm, but rather a trip to it and enjoying each individual sensation. They allow a person to explore his body, learn his own sexual needs, and also help improve relations in pairs. One way to survive an unusual intimate experience, together with a partner, is Lingam massage.
What is Lingam massage
This is a type of tantric sexual practice aimed at massage of the penis and areas around it (testicles, crotch, prostate). The main idea is not only to experience an orgasm, but to learn how to get as much pleasure as possible by accumulating sexual energy.
In Hinduism, the symbol of the uncontrollable energy of the god Shiva is Lingam (Sanskrit translates as a “sign, symbol”), and it was portrayed in the form of a stone column similar to the phallus. It also represents the generating power of creativity and fertility.
Lingam massage practice appeared in the 1970s in Berlin. Its author is considered a massage therapist Andro Andreas Rot. Later, this idea was developed by American Joseph Kramer, known as one of the leading teachers of erotic massage, and the Taoist master Mantac Chia. Over time, they were joined by sexologist Annie Sprinkl, who developed Yoni massage.
Advantages of Lingam massage
This practice is recommended for people experiencing stress and physical fatigue to those who are depressed. The total massage of the whole body, carried out at the beginning, relieves tension, relieves muscle pain.
During Lingam massage, man:
- learns to learn his intimate needs, accept his sexuality and body;
- gets rid of shame;
- increases self -confidence;
- removes irregular internal installations and restrictions;
- gets the opportunity to experience multiple orgasms.
Lingam massage helps partners better know each other – both physically and sexually, to establish relationships, revive the situation in the bedroom.
Fundamentals of male anatomy
Before you start making a Lingam massage partner, refresh your knowledge of male anatomy. The penis consists of the base, barrel, foreskin and head. On the tip of the head is the urethral hole.
The head is the most sensitive part of the penis. If the partner has extreme flesh, then there will be a crown or a comb that separates the head from the barrel. A small fold of the skin located between the lower side of the head and foreskin is called a bridle, and it is also very sensitive.
The testicles and scrotum, crotch are also very responsive to caresses – it allows you to do indirect prostate massage, without the need for anal penetration. That is why the crotch is considered a “sacred place” in this practice.
How to prepare for lingam massage
This is something more than just masturbation or affection of the penis with your hands. Both partners should be in a good mood so that everyone gets pleasant impressions of the process.
Find enough time. Make sure that no one and nothing will distract you – turn off the gadgets and close the door to the room.
In advance Put all the necessary things nearby: towels, napkins, lubrication, at will – Prostate massager, so that you do not have to interrupt during the procedure.
If you wish, accept the bath together with your partner to prepare and further relax.
Make a manicure, so as not to damage the sensitive skin of the penis and perineum during massage. Remove jewelry, rings from your hands and fingers. During prostate massage, if desired, you can put on medical gloves.
Create the atmosphere:
- Bright and sharp light does not allow you to fully relax, so take care of soft, muffled lighting: nightlight, table lamp or candle (remember fire safety).
- Turn on quiet music, for example, oriental relaxing melodies, put your favorite sexual playlist. And you can also listen to the sounds of nature – the noise of rain, sea, bird singing.
- Light incense or flavored candles, put a vase with flowers (provided that none of you are allergic or breathing problems).
- Take care of a comfortable temperature – the room should not be too hot or cold.
- Remove extra things from the room, restore order. Select the place where the massage will take place: on the bed or on the floor. If you are worried that bedding gets dirty, lay a large towel or special vinyl sheets.
- Prepare Suitable massage: oil, cream or candles.
Follow your breath. Try to breathe slowly and deep, in the same rhythm with a partner throughout the massage. This will help you tune in to each other.
How to do lingam massage to a partner
Find a convenient position. There are several options. Anyone who does a massage can sit between the legs of the receiving partner or from him. Another option is to kneel on the floor next to the bed. Change the poses during the session so that you are comfortable.
The receiving one sits or lies on his back, the legs are divorced to the sides and slightly bent at the knees so that the giver has good access to the genitals. Since massage takes a lot of time, for convenience, put the pillow under the head and hips.
Apply a massage remedy to the palm of your hand. If it is cold, warm it, rubbing your hands. Using Massage candle, Let the wax cool down a little before pouring it onto the partner’s body (do not forget to put out the wick).
Slowly massage the body of the partner without touching the penis. Manual caresses are very pleasant and help to relax, show that you love him entirely. Start with your neck and shoulders, gradually moving down. Pay special attention to the lower abdomen, upper part and the inside of the hips.
Gradually go to more sensual places. Remember that touching the scrotum should be tender so as not to cause pain in a man. Add massage oil if necessary. From the caresses of the testicles, you can go to the crotch. If the partner does not mind, massage it longer.
When both you are ready, Carefully grab the penis of the partner, running your hands on the trunk. Slowly massage closer and closer to the pubic bone, making circular movements as it approaches the base of the penis.
By massaging the barrel, remember that movements should be diverse:
- Change the grip from strong to light;
- Alternate straight and rotational movements;
- Act with two hands or one in turn;
- Move at different speeds: start slowly and gradually speed up the pace, then return to leisurely movements again.
Stop, If a partner feels an orgasm approaching. Translate attention to other erogenous zones or do breathing exercises. Such actions are called the edging. Perform it throughout the session until it brings you and your partner. If an orgasm happened ahead of time, do not be discouraged and continue the massage further.
It is important to maintain communication with a partner During massage. Ask: how he feels, whether you like what you are doing and t. D.
Lingam massage techniques
There are several options for touching the penis during massage. Perform them in turn or mix them together.
Lingam Shiasu. Gently clamp the penis between the thumb and forefinger, and then release. Repeat the action, moving gradually from the base to the head.
“Ski”. Grab the edges of the penis with both hands and alternate the movements up and down the thumbs from the base of the barrel to the tip. Try to do it at different speeds and pressure.
“Screwdriver”. Take the penis with both hands and carefully rotate them in different directions. Change the strength of the girth from the stronger to easy.
Lasks of the bridle. Grasp the bottom of the penis with one hand. With the thumb of the other hand, massage the junction of the foreskin with the head in a circular motion.
“Prayer”. Keep your palms with crossed fingers, as for prayer, and place the penis between them. Dill the thumbs and move them along each side of the barrel up and down at different speeds.
Grasp the index and thumb right under the head and turn your hand, alternating different compression forces. With the other hand, simultaneously massage the barrel or balls.
Love for testicles. During Lingam massage, carefully pull the scrotum down. Gently squeeze them together and let them go, roll in your palms or just go along your skin with your fingertips. Follow the reaction of the partner so as not to cause unpleasant sensations.
Crotch massage. If desired and the agreement of the partner, conduct anal stimulation of the prostate with your fingers. Gently enter an abundantly lubricated finger into the anus, tilting it so that it is directed to the front of the body. Feeling a prostate, press slightly on it to massage it. Instead of a finger, you can use Prostate massager.
What to do if the partner does not like Lingam massage?
Many men are used to masturbating with a tightly clenched fist and intensive speed. And slow and sensual stroking, he finds less pleasant or even tickling. Your goal is to make a massage that helps to establish greater proximity between partners, so that the man feels that his body and penis are “worshiped”.
It may take several sessions to like it. Sometimes he can lose an erection, which is also completely normal. If both of you like it, continue in the same spirit. And if not? Then try other practices or return to more familiar pleasures!