Submissive or slave? Who are slaves in BDSM?.
What is the difference between the title of lower BDSM in practice? What is the difference between BDSM and role -playing game? Who are pseudo-rabies? What rights Saba has and whether the slave has rights? About everything in order.
Submissive (submissive, submarine, lower, subordinate)
The general name for a person who plays and enjoys the role of a subordinate. Sabes, as a rule, are quite free, can obey the several upper ones, but may not obey anyone. As a rule, Sabov is rarely interested in the external attractiveness of the dominant, because the main goal of the lower – do not have fun, but please. Despite this, they can look for a suitable owner for a long time and, do not find, lead a traditional «vanilla» Lifestyle. Sabes practice BDSM exclusively session, t.e. temporary, and this does not affect their behavior in ordinary life.
Slave
A narrower concept in the BDSM, this is a submarine without will, thoughts and taboos. And if before the session the session the submissive can stipulate some taboos, which must be observed by the upper, then the person who agreed to be a slave does not have any rights and does absolutely everything that the owner orders him, suffers all the humiliation and pain, and may be for disobediencebe strictly punished.
The slave does not have the right to have an intimate connection or engage in BDSM sessions with someone except the owner, at the same time, the owner is free to live freely, have other lower ones and handle the slave as his thing. The owner for the slave – the highest power, the slave should do everything that will be pleasant to the owner, has no right to look into the eyes of the owner, does not have the right to sit in the presence of the owner, he cannot even go to the toilet until the owner permits. Each owner comes up with his own rules that the slave implicitly fulfills, no matter how cruel they were. The only rule – None of the acquaintances or native slave should know about his position if the slave himself does not want this. People can be in such a relationship «Slave» months, years and even for decades. Possession conditionally, but to transfer the slave to the other owner, the new owner must redeem the lower from the previous master or mistress.
The possession of the slave is not limited only to power. Slave – The creature is limp, non -independent, weak, which means that the owner must take care of the slave so that he does not get sick, not hurt, did not die with hunger and so on, t.e. During sessions, the slave is completely relied on its master. The latter, in turn, should be ready to take responsibility for the subordinate.
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«Pseudo-rabies»
These are men who represent BDSM as a kind of role -playing game, where a woman is a little dominated and humiliates for a look, tie, knock a little with a soft whip, and then passionately make a blowjob, followed by sex. Such men are unlikely to come across a real mistress, they communicate with you, reluctantly switching to you, are not able to obey and firmly believe that a slave should get an orgasm and has the right to sex with the mistress. From the mistress they demand ideal appearance and wellness, imagine her for themselves a kind of long -legged beauty with big breasts, in leather boots and a whip, who knows how to give pleasure a slave. In fact, they need an experienced prostitute for role -playing game. They have a message «You owe me», but not «I obey you mistress». In fact, males simply do not understand what they want, they have nothing to do with the BDSM, but they like to complain that they cannot find the true mistress and gain experience.
«Beginners-storage artists»
The egoism of these individuals is moderate, they are ready for any experiments, less likely to idealize the owner, have modest experience. They rush into BDSM with zeal, sometimes go to a new level, but more often such experience remains only a vivid memory in the life of a traditional male. Seekers can try themselves, both in the role of the lower and in the role of the upper one, many of them are simply tired of household routine and seek diversity. As a rule, they are married, burdened by the care of the family and, becoming the lower ones, enjoy weakness and removing responsibility. If it should succeed on such a newcomer as a seeker, and even in the presence of friends, he will quickly cool and return to «vanilla» path.
«Traditional slaves»
They behave very well at sessions, really strive and can deliver pleasant moments to the mistress, are mainly prone to easy BDSM: humiliation, footjacked, light flogging, fulfillment of instructions. The traditional slave is ready to adore his mistress every second and extol her to endless heights.
«Whores»
The last absolute stage of the slave. Such slaves do everything that the mistress wishes, love dressing in women’s clothes, household ministry, flogging, are ready to endure all the inconvenience and humiliation, love to walk in a collar and clothes that create emotional and physical restrictions. Despite the fact that outside the BDSM these are quite successful people, they are in dire need of strict lady, physical and psychological scourges. All whores dream of a permanent life in the style of BDSM (Lifestail), but not everyone succeeds in finding this option. Whores recognize themselves as a mistress’s thing, her legs mat, are ready to provide themselves as a toilet or a mistress spinning. Such slaves are not right and taboo, and very happy about this. If the hostess has sex with another, then the slave can be allowed to observe the process, kneeling, and then, for example, he must mate the sperm of another man from the stomach of the mistress. Refuse to fulfill orders, the slave has no right. The only way – do not go away.
All these classifications are very arbitrary, do not urge to follow them exactly, because the BDSM culture is quite multifaceted and individual for each.