11 BDSM-IGR, which should be tried at least once.
Sometimes new hobbies seduce us to plunge with the theory and practice immediately with our heads: to study all the manuals and buy all the corresponding profiles, and even the best and most expensive. Various sexual practices are a vivid example of this, and especially BDSM.
The American sexologist Vanessa Marin offers couples taking the first steps in this interesting world to try the elemental-level BDSM elements before starting “all grave”. It is worth spending time to study every component of practice well-bondage and discipline, dominance and subordination, sadism and masochism, and think in advance about the stop-word and restrictions.
“Yes, master or lady” during sex
It not only sounds very exciting, but also helps to very simply find out what role one of you prefers. If it so happened that you both want to be “upper” or “lower”, get sick of a fair change of roles.
Arrange the evening of games
You can make an unusual erotic game to find non -banal erogenous zones in your own or on the body of a partner. To do this, you need two playing cubes: one body is drawn or written on one, and on the second – actions that need to be performed. Sometimes combinations can turn out rather funny, for example, pinch your finger. But you can find sensitive points where this was not expected at all.
Put a bandage to a partner
You can do this during the prelude or sex. So the partner with blindfolded eyes completely gives his power to another, and the “turning off” of one feeling makes all other sensations as aggravated as possible. It is not necessary to use a special mask, a silk belt from a dressing gown or men’s tie is perfect here.
Add sensations until the partner sees
The second can draw a feather, fur or something unusual to the touch across his body). This sensory game is great for beginners. Do not rush and truly tease your beloved or beloved.
Increase excitement using temperature games
Also nothing complicated – we take an ice cube and draw on the back or stomach. You can also take a special massage candle and make massage with warm oil, which is released during burning. Do not forget to extinguish the candle before applying oil to the skin so that the light BDSM does not turn into severe consequences.
Take advantage of the spacing accessory
If you have already tried elements of rough sex, for example, pulled by the hair or spanked your partner with a palm, you can try to replace your hand with a special slap or at least a wooden shoulder blade from the kitchen. Adding any accessory, even if it does not look sexy, can strongly excite. Just remember about caution – it’s worth slapping only in soft places (buttocks, hips), and not beat your partner until bruising is formed. And also take care of the stop signal to stop the action if something goes wrong.
Come up with a script of an exciting role -playing game
Now that you better know what both like, this can be used in a passionate scene. For example, a strict teacher or teacher and naughty student. If an impromptu does not work out, find in advance (the Internet knows everything) and discuss a small scenario so that everything goes smoothly.
Discipline games
Here, the dominant partner thinks out a set of rules and restrictions that the subordinate should follow. The domino decides what the submissive will go to work or what will prepare for dinner. For each unfulfilled rule, the “lower” receives a punishment that evening.
Visually seduce each other with clothes and leather or latex accessories
Corset, super-tight leather skirt or dress, high heels-all this makes you feel sexy. As the sexologist Vanessa Marin says, studies have shown that a sense of confidence in his body is directly related to female orgasm.
To show humility to your master or lady, you can use the collar.
Limit mobility
The obedient partner is connected by the wrists with a scarf or belt, allowing the upper to completely take responsibility. Do not forget to leave a distance of two fingers between the skin and the limiter to avoid damage to the skin. Gradually, it will be possible to move on to more serious options, for example, use a set of locks, where wrists and ankles are constrained together, or master the Japanese art of binding – Shibari.
Remember the subsequent departure
After such intense games, the submissive may experience a sharp emission of endorphin, and the role of the dominant in this phase is to give them a little care. Find a few minutes to just hug and relax. This time can also be devoted to communication with each other and discussing the experience gained. What you liked the most? You would like to continue to experiment and how? For the right BDSM game, it is important for partners to communicate both before and on time and after sex.