What is vaginal and anal fisting, how to engage, benefits and harm.
Today we’ll talk about a completely non-standard diversity in the sexual life of the hetero- and gay-part, and specifically about anal and vaginal fisting. What is fisting, and what does it have to do with the vagina and pope, probably you ask. The word came from the English fist – fist. A person entering a vagina or an anus of a partner with a fist is called a fisting active partner, taking the side – passive. You can penetrate with your fingers, then this action acquires the name Fingering, but caresses with fingers are a preparatory stage for the introduction of the whole palm or fist into the desired hole. Profit can introduce and take a fist and even two, and someone is capable of double fisting, when both hands enter the same hole at the same time in one hole or two!
Being one of the ways to get sexual pleasure, the indicated technique has quite conflicting reviews. Immediately understand how good fisting is probably impossible. Someone can say that this is disgusting, this type of love of love brings others an incomparable orgasm to others. Of course, such caresses are not suitable for everyone. Honestly, there is more harm in such a technique of sex than good. Give everything about everything in order.
What is fisting, myths and truth
We have already said that fisting is the introduction of a hand or fist into an anal or vaginal hole. Both men and women can do this, that is, there is heterophystic and heifisting, while some differences between them are. First of all, the presence of a prostate man in the root changes the stimulation of the anus while planting on a fist. Special silicone hands are sold in sex shops for such classes, lubricants on special basics, gloves are invented.
Advanced fistingshists prefer to pull each other in special sling – swings in which the body of a passive participant is as relaxed and entrusted with an active partner. Such swings are also suitable for ordinary sexual practices, but they especially liked the “treasures”.
Some lovers assure that anal fisting brings a lot of physical impressions that are completely new and unsubstantiated. It is impossible to survive such stimuli even from the vibrator in the ass, judging by their reviews. Vaginal fisting has a more psychological background: a woman wants to be so close to a partner that it allows him to completely possess herself. And such possession of the hand or foot (some couples use feet to penetrate the physiological holes) causes them, gives a feeling of endless fullness, which can not be compared even with the longest and most thick member.
As grandfather Freud said, the libido of such people as psychological development was recorded at the anal-vaginal stage, because they are entailed by perversions associated with unusual penetration and stretching of the treasured holes.
You are probably interested in what you can do with a whole fist or palm in human guts or in vagina. In principle, there are a lot of movements in the arsenal of fistings. There are no problems with the vagina at all, because a whole child passes through it during childbirth, because there should not be painful sensations even with active rotations. In the anus, they first move the hand carefully, then reach rotations, twists, turns, feelings, stretching, progressive pushing frictions, etc.D. Of course, you can’t do this right away.
It will not work to stretch the newcomer to a fist from the first sample – it is dangerous for health. But after 4-5 meetings it will be quite possible. Passes take the hand on the elbow and even slightly above the forearm. Well, and the pros with millimeter accuracy can stick the entire fist with the knuckle of the thumb, which usually gets stuck, bypass the bend of the intestines, which many stumble after the fist entering, etc.D. In general, experienced fistingists are capable of a lot.
Double fisting: vagina+ anus
If your natural dimensions allow you, then after sufficient stretching of the muscles of the rectum and vagina, you can enter both hands into one hole or simultaneously into different. At the same time, you can move them in different directions, make all the movements we listed, which leads the accepting side to multiple orgasic ecstasy. Do you like this fact or not, but in the modern world a full of lovers to sit on a fist!
From the point of view of law and medicine
The opinion of doctors also does not allow us to unambiguously judge the benefits or danger of this source of pleasure. On the one hand, experts are sure: if you do everything right, nothing bad will happen. Moreover, to some extent, fisting is considered even useful:
- The penetration of the fist into the vagina helps to develop intimate muscles, which will certainly come in handy for labor: it will pass with minimal pain;
- The penetration of fingers or palms into the rectum for a man guarantees not only new bright sensations, but also the preventive massage of the prostate.
Of course, with regular classes, such a love between the legs may appear a “bucket”, and it will go into the “rose”, deliciously emitting the gases and smoking her underpants at every message. Although, according to experienced lovers in reviews, the anal and vaginal fisting has consequences only with constant and frequent use, but if the classes are discontinued for at least 1-2 months, the muscles again take the original appearance, and when the fist careeps are renewed, it is necessary to stretch all the holes again.
Thus, vaginal and anal fisting is not harmful to the receiving side, if everything is done wisely and gradually, with objects created specifically for these cases, and not with a bottle of beer and without lubrication. Indeed, the process of penetrating the hand into the bosom or ass and the onset of orgasm does not threaten anything, but such a technique may have a lot of dangerous consequences. The result of specific love games is often significant health problems, both in men and women.
For example, the result of a kind of intimate games for women can be:
- stretching of the vaginal muscles, the restoration of which will take a long time, the performance of special exercises;
- rectum loss;
- injuries and breaks;
- the probability of infection of STD;
- Risk of blood poisoning (sepsis).
Daredevils who have decided to try anal fisting should be ready for the risk of developing no less serious complications. Excessive stretching of the rectum tissue can lead to their corruption, in women-to the formation of intestinal-vaginal fistulas. Some serious injuries for a certain time remain unnoticed, which leads to deaths. In addition, the most common problem that beginners faces is fecal incontinence. And about old age, when all the sores are exacerbated and all the mistakes of youth come out, and it’s scary to speak scary. You risk your pension with discomfort in the anus by all parameters.
An important point is that the anus of each person has its own physical characteristics and sizes, therefore, it is important for such classes to take into account the capabilities of his body. If an anus in a man or woman is not intended for fisting, neither the long -term development of the sphincter, nor the lubricant will help.
In 2013, a young woman and mother of two children died from vaginal ruptures while trying to fist her lover with her fist. The ambulance did not have time to get and there was no one. Woe-lover was convicted of causing death by negligence for 2 years.
So keep in mind that the poor outcome of your games in “Fists and palms” can end in jail, since the police and the court qualify the actions of the active side as conscious, that is, you understand that they are potentially dangerous for the health of another person, but you continue your ownperversion to implement. If you think that your bodily pleasures do not harm anyone, continue in the same spirit.
Myths and prejudices about fisting
On the topic of anal and vaginal fisting, there are many stereotypical opinions that do not have an evidence base.
After vaginal fisting, a woman does not receive an orgasm from ordinary sex
This is not entirely true: from fisting, ladies experience different pleasure, buzz, akin to drugs or alcohol intoxication by sensations, but at the same time, girls still have ordinary sex, as well as anal, oral and simply masturbate. Most of such “joys” are only a item in the list of sexual diversity. Someone excites the idea of complete humility to the partner-in fact, a woman satisfies her need to obey the dominant man. But this does not cancel the classical sex drive. Of course, we are not talking about those who have fixed on one form of pleasures – this is already deviation in all its glory.
A member with vaginal penetration is still felt. Some ladies note, on the contrary, his more dense girth with muscles, since training is beneficial.
Fisting on the shoulder is possible
This is true, but only half. With vaginal fisting, it is simply impossible to introduce a palm or fist further than the vaginal length will allow. In the ass of good skills, you can climb very far! Only now it is very dangerous to do this in a drunken stupor and without preparation, since there are almost no nerve endings in the gut, and you risk getting serious injuries that are incompatible with life.
Fisting is not available to miniature women
The parameters of the pelvis do not depend on the size of the body. If it is wide (namely internal dimensions), then even a height of 160 cm and a weight of 45 kg will not become an obstacle to such classes. Some “babies” are high from double fisting, without getting any discomfort.
Hetero and gay-fisting are no different
These are different procedures, if we talk about anal fisting. In men, the anus reacts differently to stimulation, since the prostate sensitive to caresses is located there. In addition, men with non -traditional orientation purely psychologically perceive their ass differently – for them it is a source of pleasure, as for girls vagina and clitoris.
Of course, no one will refuse additional caresses in the process: men can masturbate the penis during the penetration of a fist into the ass, girls – clitoris.
Our sex shop has all the sex toys for beginners and advanced fistings: gloves, lubricants, anal sprays and shower, artificial hands, bushings, phalluses, swings and other accessories! If you trust each other and want to get crazy pleasure, do not deny yourself this!
Why do people engage in fisting, what feelings
We have already said that men and women who are stuck at a certain stage of psychosexual development have a tendency to such practices. Their libido stuck at this stage. They enjoyed and could not switch to something else. If we turn to vector psychology, it is clearly said that there are people with an anal vector – strong personalities, with high sexual temperament and need. The anal vector requires a complete submission and possession of it from a partner, but in normal manifestations, such people are monogamous, caring and attentive. In case of dissatisfaction with any required sex parameters, the frustrated owners of the anal vector become cruel, aggressive and prone to sexy rude perversions, in which complete possession is expressed through humiliation, “dirty” copulation, which gives additional excitement.
Among fans of fisting there are people with different psychological features who make them out of love for diversity. They can with the same enthusiasm with three sex or indulge in anal sex in gay options-exclusively craving for new impressions and lack of internal prohibitions, that’s all.
What do people feel when fisting? Psychological satisfaction prevails in an active role: I like to feel like a dominant and master, visually nice to watch how the passive is wriggling and excited, how he twitches and obeys. Men are excited by a widely diluted female vagina or anus. Many assets are pleased to feel how the gut around the hand is tightly compressed. Passes receive a physical buzz from prostate stimulation in cases with men, while women manage to finish due to the effects on point G and other sensory vaginal areas, both with vaginal and anal fisting. Naturally, they like to obey.
There is an opinion that some couples come to the topic of fisting by chance: there were attempts to find a point of ji, in which both were very excited from a deeper and more dense penetration into the vagina or ass. In addition, the pubic bone and urethra are very close to this zone, the pressure on which brings many pleasant experiences.
Does it hurt to do fisting
With the right introduction of a palm or fist, it should not be painful. If you are trying to introduce a hand with fingers a disgrace, it will be very unpleasant! The normal position of the palm when introducing into the anus or vagina – four fingers together and the big as if dwells under them. And this is done gradually, and not immediately for the entire length of the hand.
Of course, anatomical features play a role in sensations. With a narrow internal space, it will be painful even with properly folded fingers, because the knuckles of the four upper ones will be applied to the pelvis bones. The degree of excitement is also responsible for all the impressions experienced, and the moral tendency to experiments “on the verge of normal” will not be superfluous to reach the peak. As a rule, a physiological obstacle is rare, but the psychological one has just for every second doubting beginner.
What is needed for fisting and obtaining orgasm
In addition to physiological consequences, it is worth noting the psychological costs of the process. Some people practicing fisting note that after the penetration of the fist, ordinary sex with a partner is not impressive. To achieve orgasm, a woman will not have enough standard girth of the penis and even the largest phalloimitator. It is possible to minimize the likelihood of negative consequences and unpleasant sensations if you are correctly prepared for the process.
The key to successful and safe fisting can be called the fulfillment of several conditions.
- The desire to practice this type of intimate relationships should be mutual.
- A passive partner, regardless of whether a woman or a man should be at the peak of excitement.
- It is extremely important that confidential relations and mutual understanding are formed between both participants in the process.
- You can not rush with the first movements, direct penetration. Everything should happen slowly, accurately, if the painful partner occurs in the passive partner, the penetrating one needs to stop right there.
- In no case do not forget about hygiene and manicure. Long, unprotected nails are able to damage the mucous membrane.
- And, of course, use the maximum lubricant.
About how to do fisting, many are interested in. To some extent, the desire of a penetrating partner should be higher, because it is he who will have to be patient, and carefully listen to the reaction of the second half. No need to persuade and insist that it should happen right now. Before the start of vaginal or anal fisting, it is necessary to excite a woman well, a long prelude, massage of intimate parts of the body, high -quality cunnilingus will help in this. You can relax the guy with good mines, only the main thing is not to let him end, since a premature orgasm is able to deprive the mood for continuation.
A few words about the technique of penetration: how to do fisting
As soon as the passive partner prepares, and with all its appearance demonstrates the desire of an immediate invasion, you can start the main. It is worth noting that anal fisting requires cleaning procedures in a passive participant and using an active partner of sterile gloves in order to exclude an accidental puncture of the intestine, the walls of which are quite thin. You can proceed immediately after the enema.
How to prepare for fisting, enema
It is better to refuse harmful food and products that cause excessive fermentation for 24 hours. In 7-8 hours, make a cleaning enema cool water. Those who regularly sit on a fist can make themselves a separate shower with a hose, which the intestines are washed. 20 minutes of thorough cleaning will be enough for you. Then release all the water, making sure that the “upper” fountain will not hit the fecal slope in the face.
Keep in mind that with plans for a long fisting (more than 4-5 hours), you will have to make an entry into the bathroom again, since a new portion of excrement will not be long in coming. Even the largest connoisseurs of their palms in other people’s intestines do not like to face the “counter -steam locomotive”.
You can put up in several visits, taking a break between each portion of 10-20 minutes.
Stretching for a beginner
Try to achieve the peak of excitement in both partners. If the “lower” partner loves vaginal caresses and penetration, try to bring it to the desired condition in an acceptable way. It helps to relax and relieve nervous tension. First you should not try to insert the whole palm in the rectum or vagina. Start with the penetration of one finger, if everything goes well, add one more.
As soon as 4 fingers come across, everything except the big one can begin light progressive movements. In parallel, it is possible to accompany fisting with caresses of the clitoris, and for a man an effective way to relax and prepare the rectum for the penetration of the fist will be aniling.
Trying to penetrate the whole palm, you need to press the thumb as tightly as possible. If everything works out, make a small pause, give your partner the opportunity to get used to new sensations. Next, you should put your hand in a fist and with careful movements “back-back” or circular, rotational frictions, without leaving the cavity, bring your soul mate to an orgasm.
When the anal or vaginal hole opened as much as possible, and the hand easily slipped, you can carefully enter 1-2 fingers of the second hand for additional stimulation. If it turned out, make sliding movements in different directions.
After the most important thing happens, you need to carefully remove your hand from the vagina or anus. This should be done, having previously clenched the fist, slowly and gradually.
Golden rules of fisting
Sensitive people never do fisting under drugs or a large dose of alcohol, because it dulls all the sensations! Easy intoxication helps to relax, but you must keep control to track any unpleasant urge.
Do not be afraid to stop the process if it hurts. This is the main condition of fisting – the pain cannot be tolerated! The safest look is to the wrist of the hand!
In the room where you are engaged in such love joys, it should be comfortable and fresh, but not cold, since in the cold conditions the muscles are involuntarily reduced, which makes it difficult to introduce something into the anus and vagina. Think about how to cover the bed so as not to stain linen.
Do not spare a lubricant – it should be enough and with a margin. Do not forget to add grease in the process, gently pulling out your hand with previously clenched fingers from the partner’s body. It is better to buy gloves specifically for fisting to avoid a breakthrough. Look at the combination of lubricant and glove material with each other. Do not forget about the sex toys that will help during the relaxation of the partner and diversify the stimulations. Keep the entire arsenal at hand.
Be sure to keep a white towel with you, which will from time to time wipe your work. This is necessary to control the safety of your “Ladushka”. If strangely colored spots (pink, red, brown) appear on the surface of the towel, stop. The scuffs of the intestine or its injury could occur, and, perhaps, the partner is time for a second enema.
During fisting, you can talk or be silent – it all depends on how comfortable you are both. Someone manages to keep non-verbal communication by body signals and through visual contact.
In the middle of the action, involuntary contractions of the intestine occur in the middle of the action – this is normal. Pushes you out? Address and wait. Many assets say that such a moment is painted with the most piquant impressions. .
Remember, the “upper” participant spends a lot of emotional energy, and physical too, therefore, to come to such a date is in an excellent mood and rested. In the process, unforeseen circumstances arise (the eye was combed, the back was tired, your legs were numb, you wanted to go to the toilet), decide them as far as the partner is close to the orgasm. It is advisable not to interrupt for a long time.
By the way, it will not hurt you either to stimulate yourself. You satisfy the body of another person for a long time, and your no one caresses. This tires and sometimes annoying, because the arousing arrest increases. Use sex toys, for example, vibrators, clips, bushings, pumps, etc.D.
Fisting is an unusual matter, so enjoy each other only with complete confidence and understanding that your base is kind will, rationality and security. Never do what you doubt, even with the persistent requests of a partner! This applies not only to liabilities, but also to the upper participants – do not follow the “Nizhny” to continue sharp and rough caresses if you doubt their safety.