Anal sex – the best orgasm.
There are no prohibitions for lovers in sex, the main rule – it should be good to be both. Anal sex is no exception and even more so not pathology.
"This method of love is the highest aerobatics, because it requires trust in each other and a particularly careful attitude of a man to a woman. And if you come from the rear, then both partners will be satisfied", – assures Valery Davidyan, doctor-sexologist of the Moscow network Clinic Medical Center-Service.
According to Valery Davidyan, 15 percent of married couples regularly have anal sex. Five percent of the spouses resort to him from time to time. And 30 percent of men and women do not accept not only penetration into the anus, but also reject the thoughts of the caresses of the anus. Choosing ways to get pleasure is a personal business of everyone. However, it must be remembered that many families are destroying monotony in bed. If anal caresses bring joy to both a man and a woman, then to health!
Ass – hot zone
The fact that the ass cannot give pleasure to a woman is a deep misconception. According to the sexologist, the rectum is a full -fledged erogenous zone, the same as the vagina. It also contains nerve endings responsible for pleasant sensations. In addition, in almost half of women, the uterus is located
With the bend of the back. Anal sex gives them a chance to get a uterine orgasm, and it is rarely achieved even with vaginal contact.
"When stimulating the anus in women, orgasm is much more intense than clitoral or vaginal, ”says Valery Davidyan. – And pleasure is felt deeper and much longer. If a woman at least once "Flew" when contacting the ass, she will definitely want to repeat this experience".
Through hardship to the stars
The most crucial moment of anal coitus is penetration. The entry of the penis into the anus is prevented by circular muscles. With irritation, they, alas, are compressed, and the goal is to relax them. If you enter rudely, the partner’s cracks are provided, which will have to be treated, and anal sex will have to be forgotten for a long time.
Therefore, the first thing you need to warm up properly. Davidyan advises men to caress the clitoris and anus of a woman. Irreplaceable help in this matter. Hold your finger pillow on the anus, gently massage it, carefully insert your finger inward, and then start slow circular movements. All this time do not forget about the clitoris. Feeling that there was relaxation, enter two, and then three fingers. Ask a woman to put out and breathe evenly, it helps to relax. And only now the line of the penis came.
After 4-5 contacts, the muscle becomes elastic and supple. But we must remember that in a couple of days the ass "forgets" experience and it must be stimulated again. />
For the first time, limit yourself to caresses with your hand. Having reached "understanding", Anal sex can be done at least every day.
Woman – our steering
Accepting a member, a woman should fit, and then a member will come in without obstacles. "Introduction is a crucial moment, because you can injure a frenum", – warns Davidian.
To avoid troubles, the head is placed in a bridle on the anus, the finger should be pressed from above on a wide part of it, and the tip at this moment is carefully pushed inside. The rectum is not quite straight, so direct the penis at an angle. As if he was aiming at the navel. Start with slow gradual penetrations. When the hole stretches – go to intensive frictions.
How
move – back and forth or rotative, quickly or slowly – a woman will tell. After all, it is important that anal sex does not bring her inconvenience and she could focus on pleasant sensations.
The best pose for the coatus from the rear is the position sideways, bending the legs at the knees. Acceptable and knee-elbow position. You can also try the situation when a woman lies on her stomach, bending one leg to the side and forward. Missionary – partners on a man’s shoulders will also be suitable.
Having mastered the basics of anal contact, the woman will reach perfection if she learns to strain the upper femoral muscles in the process. These simple exercises replace the movements of the penis forward and backward, adding new sensations to partners.
You can’t do it – you won’t go
It is easier to penetrate the anus using special lubricants containing benzocaine or lidocaine – they reduce pain. And the presence of nonoxinol or miramistin in them provides additional protection against sexually transmitted diseases. Lubrices also contribute to the healing of the wounds and relieve irritation.
Water -based lubricant is best: if the products contain fat, then there is more likely to break a condom, in addition, they reduce the sensitivity. In extreme cases, hair gel is suitable. Water -based creams will also be made, from domestic children’s good – "Tick-t".
Soap, petroleum jelly, vegetable and animal oils are better not to use!
Remember!
Anal sex – still a specific activity. Here are two conditions that must be fulfilled for a successful process without unpleasant consequences.
Condom – without it in the anus, according to doctors, the entrance is strictly prohibited. The rectum mucous membrane is very delicate and therefore more susceptible to infections. With this type of sex, it is easier to pick up AIDS, syphilis and herpes and other infection. In addition, intestinal microorganisms cause urethritis.
There are condoms designed for anal sex. This is written on the package. They are not thicker than ordinary ones, they are simply checked for strength according to more stringent standards.
Enema – it is made with warm water with a springs. If the gut is not empty, unpleasant surprises are not excluded.
Eastfact
* In ancient India, anal sex was called "Lower Union". Treated him as a harmless, but rare quirk.
* In ancient China, anal was considered exquisite affection. In the treatise "Collection of spring palace" There is advice: "Penetration should be leisurely, but steadfastly, like a drop flowing down the petal down. Movements inside – careful, like a light wind swing flowers".
* In ancient Greece, anal copulations were encouraged.
* Arabs believed that anal contact eliminates infertility.